Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Negative Feelings Towards Aliyah

"What are we seeing here? Jobs. Jobs, jobs, jobs." - Rachel Berger, NBN

NEGATIVITY TOWARDS THE IDEA OF MOVING TO ISRAEL
The amount of people who have reacted negatively to my decision to make aliyah is overwhelming.

Take Susan S., who has lived in Israel for over 20 years. In response to a post that I wrote on a yahoo listserve, she stated: "I guess you're religious. I can't see why anyone would otherwise want to make Aliya these days. The situation here is pretty terrible from all points of view, and the only good thing is the weather in the winter." Her response was typical. Others responses wondered why I would move to a country that "Amenijad has in his sights" and they believed that "Israel has too many Americans anyways and besides, there are no jobs here." Similarly, one of my former rebbeim from yeshiva happened to be in town last week. He lives in Telstone, Israel and he called me mushugana, mentioning that many of his neighbors are unemployed.

In America, I have received similar luke-warm to outright pessimistic comments. An owner of a local kosher restaurant overheard my wife speaking about our decision to make aliyah. He interrupted her mid-sentence to tell her that he once made aliyah in the early 80s. He shouted - "In Israel, employers won't even give you enough money to cover basic needs!" He was appreciative that his aliyah failed so that his kids wouldn't have to go to the army.

ARE THERE REALLY NO JOBS IN ISRAEL?
The message I received on my pilot trip was drastically different. If my pilot trip was a novel, its theme would be similar to Jacob Richman's CJI webpage: "Reason #843,008 to make aliyah: There are jobs in Israel!." I met with Rachel Berger from Nefesh B'Nefesh's employment division in its large headquarters in Jerusalem. She went through various websites with job listings (such as Linked-In groups). As she went through each source of employment information, she would repeat the mantra: "What are we seeing here? Jobs. Jobs, jobs, jobs."

By the way, the official NBN statistic is that 97% of NBN's olim find a job within their first year of living in Israel.

I also met with successful olim, like Goel Jasper, Paul Shindman, and Paula Stern, who immigrated to Israel years before and were successful in their careers. The official reason for meeting these olim was to spend 20 minutes to find out general information about particular careers in Israel. However, each meeting ended up being an intense session that took several hours. We discussed how they started in Israel, what their Israel experience has been like, and about how there are definitely jobs for Olim in Israel!

Most importantly, I met with a friend, David C., who made aliyah several years ago. David is my hero and in my mind, the epitome of the successful oleh. He could be the NBN poster child. He has worked diligently to make a name for himself in Israel in the field of internet marketing -- and he has been extremely successful. With David as an example, I see that it is possible to make it in Israel.

YOU HAVE TO TRY
Recently, Rabbi Gottlieb of Baltimore's Shomrei Emunah Congregation announced that he will be making aliyah to Israel. In a recent Shabbos drasha, he explained his reasons for making aliyah. He started by giving profuse thanks to the congregation for allowing him to be his Rav. He then proceeded to say that one might wonder why he would give up so much in chutz l'aretz to take such a risk for an uncertain future in Israel. His reply was he concluded - "It's Israel, we have to try...It's our home, we have to try."

I guess my reasons to moving to Israel are similar. Ostensibly, it is totally crazy that I am moving. I have a very decent job, my wife and I are both slated to receive promotions in the near future, etc. However, something inside both of us is screaming that we belong in Israel. Yes, it is risky. However, my wife and I both feel that we have to try to make it in Israel.

8 comments:

  1. I think if you don't at least try, you'll be wondering all the rest of your life if you made the right decision.

    You don't want to be an 80 year old man thinking about 'what might have been'.

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  2. Anonymous, you are 100% right. Thank you for the chizuk.

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  3. We've been in Israel since 1970 and can't imagine living any place else. Hebrew is the key. Israelis live well. Learn to manage like an Israeli, better yet, like the immigrants from Russia. They know how to work the system.

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  4. Thanks for the advice, Batya. I appreciate it.

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  5. Wow, being here in Israel, I forget that all that negativity about Israel actually exists! And now that I'm on the other "side," it actually sort of disgusts me. I know that's a really strong word but it's like when I hear someone talk negatively about a person, it really upsets me and I guess I feel the same way when I hear about the negativity towards Israel... Israel, the beautiful, fun, exciting, vibrant country of the Jews! The place where things happen. The place that is the centre of the world. The place to be...

    But ONLY - and I mean this 100% - if YOU want to be here. Because coming because you're supposed to be here or because of some other reason could be very bad. Yes, there are people here who are miserable. There are people here who leave because they were miserable. There are people who cannot take the stresses that go with living here. That is why you really need to want to be here.

    I also think that it's OK not to be here. I know that from personal experience. I had to get away because I was very unhappy here. I went to Canada and thank God, six months ago, I was ready to return. And so far so good. But chutz laaretz was important for my personal growth at that time.

    Anyway, just tell everyone to stop talking lashon hara about Israel. No, we shouldn't lie about it. It is not just a place of beautiful views, sunny days and awesome cafes but it IS a place of all those things and more.

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  6. Thank you for this post...i'm very serious about aliyah and its very difficult to hear the negativity from people. thanks for some positive energy:)

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  7. Anonymous -- thank you for the most awesome note! The holy land is definetely where you belong and you are not crazy for wanting to make aliyah at all. It is quite unfortunate that these comments about Israel abound like this!

    When I first started to do research about making aliyah, I was in touch with this guy Goel Jasper because I was interested in a community he used to live in. My first question I asked was, "Am I crazy to wanting to make aliyah with my 4 kids?" And he responded, "Since when is doing a mitzvah from the Torah crazy?" I have done a lot of research since, and even went on a pilot trip, and I just want to tell you that unanimously, all I heard from people living in Israel is that it's the best decision they ever made (although they do mention it can be tough at times).

    Good Luck and please let me know if I can help at all.

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  8. My wife and I made aliyah over 4 years. It has definitely had its ups and downs and I never thought we'd last this long. The hardest were the first 6 months. It is important to find a supportive group of friends, aliyah can't be done all on your own. It is also important to invest some time learning Hebrew better (something hard to do while working).

    Any one who blindly says "aliyah aliyah aliyah" is living through rose colored glasses. Aliyah isn't for everyone because it IS tough. That doesn't mean it isn't worth it.

    Good for you, stay strong.

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